Abstaining from an object in Latin can leave you with one of three grammatical constructions, given here in the order of frequency:
- abstinēre aliquid/sē + ablative of object
- abstinēre aliquid/sē (absolute)
- absintēre aliquid/sē + genitive of object (cf. Greek ἀπεχἐσθαι τινός)
Here some examples of how and from what the Romans refrained—
- virgō nuptā abstinet — virgins abstain from marriage
- vir sapit quī urbis rēbus abstineat — the wise man holds off from politics
- mē ostreīs et muraenīs facile abstinēbam — I easily abstained from oysters and eels — Cicero, Ad Familiārēs 7.26 (they make him nauseated)
- mihi abstinē invidere! — don’t bother pitying me!
- animum coluit abstinentem pecūniae — she cherished a frugal mind